Sometimes it feels like being a mom means fighting a battle you just can't win. Take the Pennsylvania mom whose baby was sitting inside her vehicle in their own driveway when she got carjacked! Living smack dab in the middle of the region that got hit with a heat wave, leaving your 1-year-old in the comfort of the air-conditioning should have been the safe bet.
These are the darned if you do, darned if you don't moments that make parenting so hard. The good news here is the jerk who took off with Jennifer Ramirez' car must have realized baby Nariya was in the backseat and gotten scared.
The carjacker abandoned the car and the baby a few miles away, and the mom who had been unloading groceries from the vehicle when the whole thing went down was reunited with her little girl in less than an hour. But here's betting she will never leave the car running with her daughter inside again.
It's a sad commentary on the state of our society when you can't leave your car running in your own driveway. But this is a perfect example of the parenting Catch 22 I'm talking about.
You sit there reading all these awful stories about kids dying because they were left in hot cars -- accidentally or on purpose. And then when a mom does the exact opposite, specifically putting her baby in the coolest spot in the heat wave because she's thinking that's the smart thing to do, it still ends up hurting her family.
I've been lucky: none of the Murphy's Law moments of parenting so far have hit me like this poor mom. But that doesn't mean I haven't fallen victim to them too. We all have.
Think about that time you were "right there" when the toddling baby fell and bumped her head. You thought "being there" was enough, right? I could go on and on with this list. I am not a big "leave the car running with kids in it" person because of all the risks and the horror stories. But in your own driveway? I've done it. Now, probably not.
Have you left your child in the air conditioning in your own driveway? What has been your biggest darned if you do/darned if you don't moment?
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only if my car has a remote to lock car in the first place
I feel sorry for her... I leave my DD in the car while I unload because I figure it's better to keep an eye on her that way. I have a private parking lot behind my townhouse and it's usually empty when we come home. I can park right in front of our door, so can see me go in. I just drop the bags inside the door until I'm done then I get her out. It's easier that way. I always thought the chances of someone coming and car jacking my car were slim to none... Now, knowing they did this to her in her driveway, I'm second guessing my judgment...
I have 4 kids and when 3 fall asleep you have no choice but bring them in one at a time. however i always have the keys with me and make it as fast as possible.
"You sit there reading all these awful stories about kids dying because they were left in hot cars -- accidentally or on purpose. And then when a mom does the exact opposite, specifically putting her baby in the coolest spot in the heat wave because she's thinking that's the smart thing to do, it still ends up hurting her family." Sorry, no, the exact opposite of leaving your child in a hot car is NOT leaving your child in the car. Thirty-five years ago, when I was a police officer, we were already telling people to never leave their cars running and this was before carjacking came on the scene. I realize that taking the child inside presents some problems, but not nearly as bad as having your child stolen because your car is carjacked.
NEVER left my baby in the car! What if the car rolled? All kinds of things can happen. When loading groceries in, I took my baby in the house. I put her in her playpen, which she hated, but at least I knew she was safe. Sometimes she would cry while I brought groceries in because she hated the playpen, but that was OK because she was safe. As soon as I got all the groceries in, she was back out of the playpen. I just don't understand taking any chances with your baby! I don't get it!
Doesn't anybody own a pack n' play anymore? Put the baby in the pack n' play, turn on their fave show and bring the groceries in when they're settled. They're safe and you're stress free!