
Wonder if Neil tells HIMYM costar Alyson Hannigan to take her advice and shove it, too?Neil Patrick Harris makes me smile. The How I Met Your Mother star is the proud papa of twins Harper Grace and Gideon Scott with partner David Burtka, he's even feeding his baby girl donor breastmilk. But just because he's a new parent doesn't mean he needs old, worn out hand-me-down advice from the likes of you -- or Sara Gilbert. In fact, when the vegan actress, who's recently taken up commenting on all things parenting on CBS's The Talk, offered Neil some vegan parenting advice, he responded with a curt, “Well, you’re a crazy, granola person. Weirdest advice ever!”
So what did Sara say that offended NPH?
Neil said Gilbert's advice included “Not to vaccinate for ages and only feed them certain, weird foods” -- advice I'd likely skip it too. And I might just be tempted to tell her to shove it.
Because let's face it, everyone -- parents and non-parents alike -- thinks they could do a better job raising your little ones than you. And they'll usually try to impart their words of wisdom whether you're in the mood to hear them or not.
I remember one aunt who commented when a younger Kavi -- at maybe around 5-months-old -- was deciding whether or not she'd like to use a binky. In the end, Kavi rejected it, but my aunt warned of nightmare scenarios where the kid uses a pacifier until they're like 10. She made no comment about the fact that her son, instead, sucked his thumb till he was literally about 10. Thanks auntie, but I'll stick to the pacifier, which I actually have the power to take away.
Alas, I'm not as bold with my advice-rejection as Neil Patrick Harris.
Do you openly reject annoying parenting advice? How do you handle unwanted advice gracefully?
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Comments (16)
Well, if your kid comes out a thumb sucker, you don't get a say... just sayin.
I always just smile when people give me advice.
Bravo NPH! I usually smile at unwanted parenting advice and brush it off.
I smile, say thanks and do it my way.
Most of the time the person offering the advice is doing so because they care... being rude is, well- just rude. No sense in that. You can take it or leave it, which is what I usually did. It doesn't hurt anything to thank them for their thoughts and then continue to do it my way. Sometimes, I learned something from even the strangest bit of well-meaning but odd thoughts. ;-)
well the way he did it didn't come off rude, he's personality and quirks it's was cutsie/funny.
I just listen and say thank you, then did it the way dh & I wanted too.
Can someone tell him to shut up for me?
I don't think he needs to shut up. I may not agree with the actual values that he has, but I do believe every parent has a right to stick up for themselves, their children, and their families. As long as they are parenting in a loving, nurturing manner that is right for their family, they are doing their job, and it is a-ok to say "We are happy the way we do things, thanks."
More parents need to stick up for their family convictions. Too many moms and dads out there allow themselves to be bullied in to a parenting style that just isn't them.
Vax-ing, No-Vax, Vegan, Meatatarians (lol), Formula-Feeding, Breastfeeding, Attachment Parenting, and so on--it doesn't matter. Parents are parents. They do the best they can and love their kids with all their hearts, and that is what matters. Not the specifics.
The one and only kid he adopted is an infant.
I have a child with Aspergers and I'm am an occupational therapist.
He may be speaking to you, he's not speaking to ME.
Love NPH. Vaccines are such a tough issue, and I think there IS no right answer. It's silly to try to tell someone else what they should do on a topic that is FAR from cut-and-dry.