How to Celebrate Yule With a Pagan Family

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This time of year, there are a lot of different celebrations going on for many different reasons. Hanukkah, Ramadan, Christmas, Kwanzaa ... and the Winter Solstice, or Yule. When people say, "The reason for the season!" and point to the birth of Christ, I always scratch my head. The reason for the season is actually, well, the seasons. The rotation of the earth.

On the winter solstice, which usually falls on December 21, the earth's axis tilts away from the sun in the northern hemisphere. This makes the winter solstice the longest night of the year, and after that, the days start getting longer again. It marks the halfway point of the cold part of the year (fall and winter) and is the official start of winter as well.

So, how do you incorporate simple changes in the season into your life, and why is it a holiday? More so, how do you celebrate Yule, especially with kids?

Well first, a little history can help understand the celebrations across the board. The ancient Egyptians celebrated the Sun God Horus during this time, bringing in decorations of palm fronts, and putting up star-like symbols of the sun.

King Louis XVI in
a "Liberty Cap" -- Santa?

Romans celebrated Saturnalia all week long, focusing on the god Saturn to encourage prosperous agriculture. They'd exchange lavish gifts, feasting, and hand over the Freedman's hat (also known as a Liberty Cap or pileus) to their slaves and serve them dinner, though the slaves still had to cook. The hat is on a few state flags, and has a wide history, but you may also recognize it as a special hat of certain tradition as well. (Hello Santa!)

Norsemen believed the sun was a great wheel of fire that would roll away from the earth and back, and they'd encourage and celebrate the return of the sun with great bonfires and large logs to burn on home fires (Yule logs). They would decorate with bows of evergreen and put ornaments like the sun (often many-pointed star shaped) out in the trees all around, to attract the sun back to the earth. Many cultures, both modern and historical, celebrated with fire and lights, to both light the longest night and to welcome back the sun. Germanic tribes worshipped Odin, went waissailing (caroling!), put out fruit and candles, even ON trees! Christmas lights, Kwanzaa candles, Menorahs, and Yule logs are still a very common celebration of the sun, fire, and light.

A lot of Pagans and Wiccans have a fun story of the battle between the young Oak King and the Holly King. The Oak King, representing the light of the new year, tries each year to usurp the old Holly King, who is the symbol of darkness.

So, why am I telling you all this history? Because I'm explaining why certain practices exist! Common to a lot of popular belief, presents, trees, and "Christmas" lights are much older than the Roman Catholic Church's designation of Christmas on the 25th. So, as Pagans, we do still have a tree, lights, presents, a big dinner (I do sun colors and winter crops ... yum), a Yule log, and lots of magic and joy to our holiday, with good reason. A lot of the practice is symbolic at this point, obviously -- I'm not exactly worried about MY crops, but the fact that the seasons are changing, the night is the longest and the sun is "returning" is MY "reason for the season."

We focus a lot on the changes of the earth. I've taken a ball and a flashlight to explain to my son about the seasons and tilt. We take walks and look at the changes in the earth, the bare trees, any snow. We cut snowflakes out of coffee filters, and decorate our big tree with ornaments and a big star on top. We generally do a Yule ritual, even if it's just short and informal, welcoming back the sun and daylight. The kids go to bed in new jammies and we wake up to presents and a Yule-themed breakfast.

Despite differences in religions or heritage, almost all pieces of celebration of the Winter Solstice (even Christmas) are the same. There are so many more similarities than there are differences that arguing over which you celebrate, which is the "true" belief, is all so silly. I've been told before that I "deprive" my children of childhood by not practicing Christmas ... obviously said by people who don't even understand what I celebrate in the first place. Growing up Pagan, the best part was I got to open my presents days before all my friends! Not deprived at all.

Do you celebrate Yule?


Image via Which Kittin?/Flickr; National Symbols of France; Christie Haskell

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thedg... thedgoddess

You know, I was raised Christian but my husband was not so we celebrate a little of everything. Besides, with an autistic kid who is very literal, he's more into the historical part. We talk about Solstice, Saturnalia, St. Lucia, Christmas, Hanukkah and even Kwanzaa. I don't think there is any harm in celebrating any of it. To each his/her own. But yeah, the origins of the season are spot on.

Toddl... ToddlerBrain82

Great post, Christie! We are officially celebrating Yule for the first time this year, although we've always "hinted" at it in our holiday celebrations.

Kar Richardson

It is the birth of the new SUN not s-o-n. My favorite thing to do is stay up all night on Yule. Someone keeps the light/fire (yule-log) burning to "assure" the return of the warmth and light for the next growing season. We usually make candles, bath salts, feast, play games, tell stories to keep us going during the night. Like a fun slumber party. Midway we do a ritual or meditation about deep lessons to learn during the quiet winter times. Then in the morning we drum and sing the sun up.

MTNes... MTNester1

And this year is also special because the Lunar eclipse will take place on the night of December 20th.  At about Midnight in the Seattle area, Christie.  Full eclipse, too.  I may be staying up to see it at least.  :)

ethan... ethans_momma06

Great article! We don't celebrate Yule in our home.

MomIWant MomIWant

Really good post!  I'm an RC and we celebrate the birth of S-O-N, but I am well aware of the choices that Constantine made (Pope Julius made official).  We have always talked about other beliefs at our house and my children will love this article!

Carey... Carey2006


maine... mainemusicmaker

It's Yule at our house as well....and Christmas at G-mas.  They get the best of both worlds, my kiddos =)

nonmember avatar Caitlin

This year is the first time I'll be celebrating Yule with my new found beleif, I'm very lucky to have a supportive mum who's going to stay up with me and bake ^^.

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