What should I do if I suspect my toddler has a motor skills delay? Health & Development

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When a child isn't hitting motor skills milestones when expected, many parents wonder if their little one just needs a little more time or if it's a problem that needs intervention. See what a pediatrician and other moms recommend doing when you start seeing signs of a motor skills delay.

Focus On the Big Picture

"We often have specific milestones in our head for when toddlers should be doing certain things, but there is a wide range of normal for motor skill development. For example, one child may start walking at 9 months while another may start walking at 15 months. The important considerations are how the child has been doing overall or if your child is not doing something that they used to do. If you’re concerned, you should talk to your pediatrician and have them assess your toddler.”

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Get an Evaluation

"Look into early intervention programs in your state. In our area, they will do a free evaluation if therapies are necessary. It is income based, and many qualify for assistance."

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Ear Problems Can Affect Skills

"We ended up getting tubes in my son's ears. Getting him checked was the best decision ever! He was getting frequent earaches that were affecting his hearing and motor skills. We saw an immediate improvement [after the tubes]."

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Therapy Can Help

"My son's pediatrician referred him to physical therapy, occupational therapy, and speech therapy."

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Progress Is Possible

"We talked to my daughter's pediatrician. We were referred to Early On [a local program providing intervention services]. She is still in this program. She loves it and continually makes progress."

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Special Programs Can Work

"We had concern about my son's motor skills, and we put him in a 'mothers' day out' preschool program. He's 2½ and he has developed so much!"

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